A Private Membership Club for Bisexual Couples
Dallas, Texas · By Invitation Only
What We Are
Membership precedes everything.
Bi Design is a private club — not a party list, not an open community, not a drop-in experience. Membership is extended by invitation, after a conversation. Events are available exclusively to members. You don't attend first to see if it fits. You are welcomed first. Everything follows from there.
Most lifestyle spaces were built around a familiar dynamic — the straight man, the bisexual woman, and a performance of openness. We built something with a different center of gravity. The man in every couple here is bisexual. Not bi-curious. Not situationally flexible. The women are straight, bisexual, or anywhere in between. The only requirement that applies to everyone is honesty.
Membership
Who We Welcome
Bi Design is a couples-first club. Singles are welcome, but only when sponsored by a couple who already belongs.
The man must be bisexual. Both partners apply together, are interviewed together, and join as a unit. The woman's orientation is her own — straight, bisexual, or anywhere between. What we ask of everyone is the same: be exactly who you say you are.
Single men and single women may join, but only when sponsored by an existing member couple. That couple vouches for you, brings you in, and you attend events in their company. Singles do not come independently.
The Standard
What bisexual means here.
We are deliberate about this because it shapes the character of the room. Bi-curious is not the same as bisexual. A man whose interest in other men exists only inside a threesome — and dissolves the moment a woman leaves — is, in practice, a straight man seeking a different kind of experience. That changes the room for everyone else.
"Even if it were just me and the other man — no women involved — I would still be having sex with him."
That is the standard.
We don't prescribe what happens in the room. Many couples here play exclusively together. The standard is not about behavior — it is about identity. If that distinction requires a conversation in the interview, we will have it. Not to judge. To keep the room honest.
The Process
How Membership Works
Submit Your Application
Both partners complete the form below. Provide photos and at least one lifestyle profile so we can begin getting to know you.
The Interview
We speak with every couple before extending an invitation. This is a conversation, not an interrogation — we want to know you, and we want you to know us.
Join the Community
Once welcomed, you gain access to our private Telegram group, event invitations, and the full standing community of member couples.
What We Ask For
Application Requirements
Every couple goes through the same process. We ask for enough to have a real conversation — nothing more.
We do not discriminate based on age, race, body type, or any other characteristic. We do curate for character, honesty, and genuine fit. Not every application will be a match — and that is by design.
Non-Negotiable
The Standard of Conduct
Privacy &
Discretion
No screenshots. No sharing. No posting. What happens here belongs here — for everyone's protection, without exception.
Consent
Is Required
Nothing happens without a yes. No assumptions. No pressure. Every person in the room may decline anything, at any time, without explanation.
No Photos
At Events
Phones and cameras stay put away. Member identities are not for public consumption. Period.
A Room for Everyone
Sultry and warm, seasoned and new, every shade and shape — the room is curated for real people, not a single look.
The Journal
Essays on design, culture & community.
Occasional writing from inside the room — on bisexual identity, lifestyle culture, design, and what it means to build a community with intention. Private. Infrequent. Worth reading.
Your information is private. Unsubscribe at any time.
Ready?
We review every application personally. If it looks like a fit, we'll be in touch.
Apply for MembershipApply
Both partners should be present when you complete this. Email is the only required field — everything else helps us understand who you are.
Thank you. We review every application personally and with discretion. If it looks like a fit, you'll hear from us — and you're welcome to join our private community now.
A private space to connect with the BI DESIGN community.